A Recordio-Gram Proposal

Black and white photo of a United States sailor in uniform kissing a woman in a suit. The couple are outside and landscape plants and shrubs can be seen in the background.

Oscar and Mary Alice’s first kiss as husband and wife, 1944.

Guest post by Patricia Sims, Media and Content Manager, Central Territory Community Resource & Development Department


Digital scan of a small yellowish record. The label in the center of the record has blue text which reads: "A personal message from a service man through facilities provided by" Below text is a USO (United Services Organization) logo, text reading "Operating Agency" and a Salvation Army Red Shield logo. Written in ink on the label is text which reads: "Play this side first. Dec. 19, 1943"
The record on which Oscar Purcell recorded his marriage proposal to Mary Alice.

The Salvation Army knows a lot about love. All year long we share the Gospel of Jesus Christ with others, so they will know how much our Heavenly Father loves and cares for us. But on Valentine’s Day, we usually think of romantic love.

There are so many special love stories in The Salvation Army USA Central Territory including marriages that last a lifetime. Recently, Phil Purcell, Territorial Director of Planned Giving shared an interesting story about his parent’s engagement—along with unique artifacts—dating back to 1943.

Phill’s parents, Mary Alice and Oscar Eugene Purcell, were both from the Terre Haute, Indiana area. Mary was born on May 27, 1925, and she was the youngest of five children. She grew up in a single parent home and her father was a successful, private businessman who started his own credit bureau during The Great Depression.

Digital scan of a square beige colored paper envelope. On the front, left side is a graphic in red and blue. The top of the graphic shows a record with blue background and "recordio-gram" text printed over record image. Bottom of graphic is a series of red verticle stripes and text in blue script that reads "A Personally Recorded Message for You." The right side of the envelope bears standard postal addressing and stamp information. Envelope was addressed to Miss Mary Alice Yanse from Terrre Haute, IN
Specially printed mailing envelopes let loved ones know that a recorded message was inside, and also notified postal workers to take extra care to not damage the precious recording.

Oscar was born on October 16, 1920, and he was the youngest of ten children. His father was a carpenter and his mother a homemaker.  Oscar met Mary Alice after high school while attending Indiana State University and fell in love. A short time later, he was drafted by the Navy during World War II.

While stationed at the Norfolk Navy Yard in Portsmouth, Virginia, Oscar decided to ask Mary Alice to marry him.  On December 19, 1943, at a Salvation Army operated USO club, he recorded his proposal on a “Recordio-Gram,” a small, personal record. He then mailed it to Mary Alice, along with a note that read, “Do not play this until just before you get ready to open the box with the ring in it. I love you Darling. Oscar.”

Mary Alice listened to that message on a record player in her home and said, “Yes!” They were married on March 4, 1944, in Memphis, Tennessee, and went on a honeymoon in New Orleans, Louisiana, where Oscar was stationed.

The couple was married for 53 years and raised four children in their Terre Haute home. They were blessed with seven grandchildren and three great grandchildren before they were Promoted to Glory.

Black and white photograph showing five men, for of them wearing World War II US Army uniforms and one wearing a Salvation Army officer uniform. The man in the center of the image wears a US Army uniform and is holding a microphone. The Salvation Army officer holds a square envelope with text that reads: "A Recordio Message For..."
Salvation Army Captain William Blomgren and four US Army soldiers testing new recording machine at the Salvation Army operated Rockford, IL USO. c. 1941 to 1943

During World War II The Salvation Army operated 201 USO club facilities, including the one at which Oscar recorded his proposal to Mary. The clubs offered a wide variety of programs and activities tailored to the specific needs of each club’s location.

In addition to featuring the very latest technology allowing service members to send two- to three-minute-long voice recordings to loved ones through the Recordio-Gram; Salvation Army operated USO facilities provided meals and snacks, photography dark rooms, jewelry making equipment, wood and metal shops, art classes, libraries, writing materials, games and sports equipment, and activities for service members wives. This home away from home provided essential emotional and spiritual wellbeing to over 225 million service members.

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